August 8, 2009 Saturday
My wife received a text message from my Mom’s cellphone, re: “ito tita dely glory unconsios bloodclot sa utak” (exact message – translation: “this is aunt dely glory unconscious blood clot in brain”).
Uncle Manding’s wife, Rebecca, told me by phone that 911 paramedics took my mother.
My cousin Rupert (Nino), son of Manding and Rebecca, was the one who told me by phone that my mother was taken to St. Francis Hospital located in Federal Way, WA.
I told Rebecca and Rupert to inform Wal-Mart, my mother’s employer, about the incident so that they could ask Wal-Mart to use the health insurance of my ailing mother.
August 9, 2009 Sunday
I sent a text message to my mother’s cellular phone – the phone that my mother’s siblings are using to text me – instructing Manding to call Wal-Mart for health insurance and charity donations to aid my mother in her condition. I also asked the exact name of the hospital and the names of my Mom’s doctors.
Their reply:
“Nino knows the Dr. But he is not here. Hospital.. Saint Joseph Medical Center Tacoma WA.”
Rupert (Nino) told me that my Mom was taken to St. Francis Hospital located in Federal Way, WA. It turned out that my mother was not confined there, but in St. Joseph Medical Center in Tacoma. He said that there’s no neurologist in a Federal Way hospital. His statements are confusing.
This incident worries me. Did they really take her to a Federal Way hospital? Or, did the 911 paramedics take her from home? Why is my mother confined in Tacoma? I also want to see a 911 transcript about the incident.
August 10, 2009 Monday
Rupert (Nino) used my Mom’s cellphone to text us that my mother looks better but still sleeping. He asked us to make an overseas call. He wanted us to call abroad so that my mother could hear us and perhaps be awakened by our voice.
Immediately, my sister made a call to my Mom’s cellphone and asked Rupert to put the phone to my mother’s ear, but he said that the nurse was doing something to my Mom that time. His answer to my sister contradicted his text message.
After 30-40 minutes, my sister made another call to my Mom’s cellphone, but Rupert said that he’s not in the hospital anymore.
August 11, 2009 Tuesday
Rupert (Nino) used my Mom’s cellphone again and texted us to call asap because my Mom is awake.
I asked my sister to immediately call my Mom’s cellphone and she asked Rupert to put the phone to my mother’s ear again. But Rupert gave the cellphone to another woman inside the room and their conversation was cut. Why would he do that? Why is he holding my Mom’s cellphone all the time?
August 12, 2009 Wednesday
There was no call from Rebecca and no text messages from Manding or Rupert (Nino).
August 13, 2009 Thursday
We received a text message from my Mom’s cellphone again.
Text message:
“Just to let u know ur mom has several doctors and mom has no progress and to let u know we r having problem accessing ur moms papers and her ins ends end of aug”
Who is this texter? Is this texter from Federal Way or an aunt who just arrived from California? Why is this texter looking for my mom’s papers? What kind of documents is this texter looking for? Are my mom’s documents missing?
This text message tells me that my mother’s condition has no progress and it contradicts the text of Rupert.
We received another text message from an aunt’s cellphone.
Text message:
“tim have u gotten any of my text– telling abt ur mom – explaining her situation–explaining wht papers were going thru– ur mom’s status and her financial situati”
Why should this aunt explain my mother’s situation through a text message? What papers are they going through this time? If they’re preparing for the billing, is my mom ready for discharge?
August 14-15, 2009 Fri-Sat
No phone call or text message from Washington.
August 16, 2009 Sunday
I was able to converse with Edward Scholl, the store manager of Wal-Mart Supercenter, Federal Way, WA. Mr. Scholl said that he only received an email indicating that my mother was taken to an unnamed hospital and that the explanation was that she had a stroke. He also said to me that there was no specific date when my mother was rushed to a hospital.
By my own means I found out that my mother’s siblings did not call my mother’s employer at Wal-Mart.
August 17-18, 2009 Mon-Tue
No phone call or text message from Washington.
August 19, 2009 Wednesday
At 8:41AM (Philippine time), I received a call from Rebecca and she gave the phone to Aunt Dely for her to explain what happened last August 8. I’ve waited 10 days for her to tell me what happened, so I didn’t believe her story (Aunt Dely is my Mom’s older sister who resides with her in Federal Way).
Uncle Manding butt in on our conversation and, by slip of the tongue, told me that they also used my mother’s credit cards and he also mentioned that my Mom’s car registration is missing.
They already used my Mom’s credit accounts and now they’re telling me about a missing document.
I don’t want to accuse them but this event is so painful and their son Rupert (Nino) just harassed me on the phone. He blamed me about the incident last August 8. He said that my mother had a stroke because of me. I wasn’t even there in Federal Way, WA, USA. My mother did not even call us that day.

My thoughts today:
I may think that my mother might have had a stroke last August 8. But how can I verify the exact event from her siblings now who denied exact information and made conflicting statements. If my mother had a stroke, what was the cause of it?
Another thing, why did they send the text messages to my wife’s cellular number from August 8-13? They know my contact number.
They’re also asking me to reply to an email sent to me. Last August 16, I received an email from somebody asking me to sign papers that would authorize Manding and an aunt to be appointees in helping my mother (perhaps in processing documents or insurance). They did not call me about this but it was made known to me by my cousins here in the Philippines.
Last August 17, around 2:30-2:40pm, my wife received a FedEx envelope containing a letter from St. Joseph Medical Center. It contains the diagnosis of my mother and an instruction for me to process my papers for an emergency travel to the United States. I think this medical record should have been sent to the US Embassy and to the Department of Foreign Affairs here in the Philippines.
How will this medical record serve as a valid document for my emergency travel to the US? Also, I won’t use this letter because I don’t trust the person who’ll be my host there, my mother’s brother Manding.
About my mother’s diagnosis, it’s thalamic and intraventricular hemorrhage. That is fatal! My Mom is really in a critical condition and if she won’t recover I’ll still demand what happened that night of August 8, 2009.
Lastly, my mother may have suffered from a stroke but she may have also received a hard blow to the head and also that she might’ve been abducted or detained against her will before she was taken to a hospital.
These August 8-19, 2009 incidents now accuse them! God is witness. Can my mother’s siblings remove this doubt from me?